Kendrick Lamar Opens Up About Sex Addiction & Cheating On His Long-Time Partner

Kendrick Lamar was very honest about his "lust addiction" on the song "Mother I Sober."

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Kendrick Lamar dropped Mr. Morale & The Big Steppers last night and as you can imagine, there were some pretty big revelations made throughout the album. Lamar is someone who has always been real in his music, and that was certainly the case on this new record. Perhaps the most revealing stuff from this album came on the song "Mother I Sober" where he goes in-depth about his sex addiction and the times he cheated on his long-time partner Whitney Alford.

“I was never high, I was never drunk, never out my mind/I need control, they handed me some smoke, but still I declined/I did it sober, sittin’ with myself, I went through all emotions/No dependents — except for one, let me bring you closer,” He says throughout the track. “Intoxicated, there’s a lustful nature that I failed to mention/Insecurities that I project, sleepin’ with other women/Whitney’s hurt, the pure soul I know, I found her in the kitchen/Askin’ God, ‘Where did I lose myself? And can it be forgiven?'”

This song was clearly very personal to the artist, and throughout the track, he even speaks on how Alford was able to forgive him, all while urging him to get some help. It was a very honest portrayal of a man's insecurities in a relationship and we're sure Kendrick felt good about getting these things off of his chest.

Lamar touches on his habit of cheating earlier on the album too, with a few bars on "Worldwide Steppers" first revealing the topic: "Next time I fucked a white bitch was out in Copenhagen/good kid, m.A.A.d city tour, I flourished on them stages/Whitney asked did I have a problem, I said, ‘I might be racist’/Ancestors watchin’ me fuck was like retaliation."


This is easily one of Kendrick's most personal records to date, which is really saying something when you think about his incredible catalog.

Let us know what you think of the project in the comments section down below.


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Alexander Cole is the current Managing Editor of HotNewHipHop. He started at HotNewHipHop back in 2018 where he began as a Sports and Sneakers writer. During this time, he has shown an expertise in Air Jordans, Yeezys, and all things that have to do with Nike. His favorite kicks are the Air Jordan 1 High OG, the Air Jordan 4, the Air Jordan 6, and the Adidas Yeezy Boost 350 V2 in the "Beluga 2.0" colorway. Although his collection might not be the biggest, he is always looking to add new styles to it. When it comes to sports, Alex has a particular interest in the NBA and the NFL. His favorite teams are anywhere LeBron goes, and the Kansas City Chiefs. As a Montrealer, the Montreal Canadiens hold a special place in his heart, even if they haven't won the Stanley Cup in his lifetime. Alex also works for the Concordia Stingers, where he provides play-by-play and color commentary for the football, hockey, and basketball teams His favorite hip-hop artists are Kendrick Lamar, Playboi Carti, Travis Scott, and Lil Uzi Vert.