Mal Thinks J Cole Is Being Performative For Crying On Stage During “Love Yourz” 

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Feb 17, 2019; Charlotte, NC, USA; Recording artist J Cole during the 2019 NBA All-Star Game at Spectrum Center. Mandatory
Feb 17, 2019; Charlotte, NC, USA; Recording artist J Cole during the 2019 NBA All-Star Game at Spectrum Center. Mandatory Credit: Bob Donnan-Imagn Images/USA TODAY Network via Reuters Connect
Mal shares his hot take on J. Cole's tearful rendition of "Love Yourz" at a Cleveland concert.

It’s been quite the year for J. Cole, who is currently embarking on The Fall Off World Tour. The tour kicked off in July and continues throughout North America until September before he heads overseas. So far, there haven’t been any major complaints, controversies, or viral moments that occupied headlines, but an emotional rendition of his single, “Love Yourz” sparked debate on the New Rory & Mal podcast.

At a recent show, J. Cole is seen becoming visibly emotional when performing “Love Yourz,” and Mal doesn’t seem to think it’s genuine. The media personality said that Cole’s tears appeared to be calculated rather than spontaneous, stating, “this crying shit is how you win the public back.”

“I feel like a lot of this is performative but he is performing. It’s at his show, he’s on stage so it should be performative. It’s nothing wrong with it. I think as Cole fans… y’all get too, like, your panties in a bunch,” Mal remarked. “Now if he was doing this sh*t on Bowery crying. Walking down the street while somebody’s playing ‘Love Yourz,’ I’ll be like, alright, we might need to check on Cole. He might be going through something.”

Mal Calls J. Cole Performative

When Demaris Giscombe pointed out how Mal’s called out Cole for appearing emotional during Dreamville Festival, Mal said that it was when he was apologizing, not when he performed “Love Yourz,” specifically. Meanwhile, Rory said that Mal’s comments make Cole sound like he’s someone who cries on camera for attention. 

“He’s been teary eyed every night doing this record,” Mal continued. “You could go back to when he was doing the shows here, he was teary eyed doing those records.”

When pushed on why Cole would fake tears for a performance, Mal essentially said that it brings positive press.

“These are the things that go viral,” he said. “You gain the hearts of the people back because you know–he sees the things online that some of his own fans were saying. Like, they was kind of off him from what he did during that battle. They were. A lot of his hardcore fans were like, ‘I don’t like that, bro. Like, that was wack. You shouldn’t have backed out like that.’”

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